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When looking for an escort, your top-of-mind usually includes cleanliness (no STD’s), no police, discretion and an unrushed experience. Although most escorts promise these basics, the reality of going into the ugly underworld of prostitution is not worth the risk, the headache, nor the short term reward.
Prostitution has been around for millennia. In fact, it's one of the oldest professions in human history, dating back to the days of Mesopotamia.(1)
For over a decade the clients of Ashley Madison have been able to get a GFE without the common liabilities associated with escorts. In fact millions of members have signed up and continue to be members of this like-minded infidelity seeking community. Let's look at why prostitution - the oldest and sketchiest profession, isn't as good as having an affair.
Most of what we know about escorts is from pop culture and crime dramas, but that doesn’t reflect the amount of dirty girls (not in a good way) that roam the streets on the sex trade.
According to IQ Solutions, a company that specializes in health information technologies communication, STI's among sex workers is an epidemic. As a sex worker, the risk of acquiring HIV and other STIs is significantly greater by engaging in unsafe sexual activity, having multiple sexual partners, and/or substance use. The rates of STIs are from 5 to 60 times higher among sex workers than in general populations.11 In addition to higher rates of STIs, sex workers are often unaware of their infection status, further endangering their own health risks and increasing the risk of infecting others with HIV and other STIs. Surveys of female sex workers showed that 35 to 55 percent of them had engaged in unprotected commercial sex.(2)
Let's be honest, it's about fulfilling your desires. Many escorts promise a quick and easy experience, but in reality, they are looking for the most buck per bang. For men, it's about the bang for the buck. A membership with Ashley Madison gives you options and let's you customize your preferences, allowing you to attract a girl that is actually looking for the same thing and not just doing her job. Find a GFE, a one-night stand, a kinky hookup, friends with benefits or whatever you're into. You can casually date a few married women, and find casual sex on your terms.
Esther Perel, the famous author and therapist says that infidelity is about meeting needs at a deeper level, An affair brings together three key elements: a secretive relationship, which is the core structure of an affair; an emotional connection to one degree or another; and a sexual alchemy."(3)
Married women are looking to get laid almost as much, or just as much as married men are according to some statistics.
The Journal of Marital and Family Therapy reported 74% of married men and 68% of women admit they'd have an affair if they knew they'd never get caught.(4) Ashley Madison is proof positive that there are lonely housewives with obvious sexual needs among more than 50 million members serviced since its inception.
No police! Need we state the obvious? Ashley Madison was developed to create an experience for a man (or woman) who has a desire to get laid asap. What takes place between consenting adults is not subject to someone's legal investigation.
As far as paying for prostitution, the laws are not on your side. In the United States, for instance, some states have punishments as high as 1 year in prison and up to $10,000 in fines.(5) Is it really worth it for a quick lay?
It's common for prostitutes to lie. Let's face it: some escorts have nothing to lose. Many escorts have used blackmail to squeeze out money from their clients, threatening to spill the beans to the wife.
Like this famous example of Dontania Danielle Petrie, a Rochester prostitute who blackmailed a doctor for $50,000. The Doctor had a reputation to maintain and the escort coerced him into an avalanche of financial aid for months. The complaint's court documents are quite haunting to read with quotes like "He pleaded with Petrie for the blackmail to be over but Petrie told him We'll talk."(6)
Ashley Madison's dating platform is popular because the female members have as much to lose as the male members and discretion is at the core of what makes the experience mutually convenient. Join millions of members who are part of it, both online and mobile.
Think about it, if you're able to have just 1 or 2 affairs then you've set yourself up with partners who don't require payment and are on the exact same page as you, the page where no-strings-attached sex dating is the bottom line.
Some experts think, the pool of wives who are against monogamy is increasing. As Esther Perel puts it, "Since 1990, the rate of married women who report they've been unfaithful has increased by 40 percent, while the rate among men has remained the same. More women than ever are cheating, or are willing to admit that they are cheating."(6)
It's not always just about the sex. Yes, an escort might offer a quick lay, but this isn't important for men who are paying for a GFE. More and more married men are psychologically breaking from their marriages and Ashley Madison could be an outlet for venting, both physically and emotionally.
According to Douglas LaBier, Ph.D., a business psychologist and psychotherapist, affairs really can empower people. "Research shows that an unhappy marriage, marked by daily conflict, damages your physical and emotional health. Yet, some settle into just accepting it, becoming numb and depressed without hope for change. Here, an affair can be a healthy act. It may reflect an unconscious or semi-conscious awareness of a desire to become more alive, to grow."(7)
"Connecting with a man of a different culture or someone taller or much older - something that my husband will never be, it is all okay."
"Since meeting someone on Ashley Madison, and reinvigorating the sexual part of my romantic life, I’m a better wife now than I was."
"I cheated on my husband to find companionship and to feel happy and alive again."
"I joined Ashley Madison and have found the fulfillment I needed to return to my husband a satisfied partner. It’s completely removed the anxiety from our marriage."